EP// 122: Marks of a Successful Marriage, Part 2
Replacing negative feelings toward our spouse with positive ones is possible! In part 2 of 4 episodes, we discuss the role of attunement in successful marriages. Discussed in this episode: – Planting a new tree with a positive attitude. – Negative and Positive Sentiment Override. – Gifting a Private Marriage Retreat to your adult married […]
EP// 121: Marks of a Successful Marriage, Part 1
Do you know of couples who just make marriage look easy? In part 1 of 4 episodes, we begin a discussion on the marks of a successful marriage. Discussed in this episode: – Are happy couples faking it? – Gift a marriage intensive to a couple who needs. www.themarriageadventure.com/support – Gottman research shows that happy couples […]
EP//120: The Thankful Marriage
Comparison makes us miserable, while thankfulness leads to joy. In today’s episode, we discuss how to develop a grateful heart this Thanksgiving. Discussed in this episode: – The “bat man.” – Adjust your focus. – The Law of Happiness by Dr. Henry Cloud – The 10% bump. – “Thanksgiving Fun Facts” – “Comparison is the […]
EP//119: The Holiday Conversation
Let’s face it. The holiday season can be stressful! In today’s episode, we discuss what makes the stretch from Thanksgiving to Christmas so difficult and how to approach it in your marriage. Discussed in today’s episode: – The Instant Pot Christmas gift. – Life in a pressure cooker. – Americans average spending almost $1000 on […]
EP//118: The “Get Back” Coach
Most football teams have a person designated to keep the players and coaches off the field during games. In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of having a “get back” coach in your life. In today’s episode: -Kirby Smart’s Get Back Coach –The Art of the Get Back Coach –“Do You Know YourGen Z Slang?” […]
EP//117: Digitally Distracted Marriage
We live in an age of an exponential explosion of technology. Today, we’re discussing how it distracts us from relationships and what we can do about it. Discussed in today’s episode: -All things fall and football! –80% agree that technoference is a societal problem. -62% agree it’s a problem in their family. –Marriage Adventure Private […]
EP//116: Israel & My Marriage
We have been heartbroken watching the images coming out of Israel following the October 7th attack by Hamas. In today’s episode, we discuss what’s happening in Israel and how it relates to the marriage relationship. Discussed in today’s episode: -Israel is the same people group from the Bible. -The church has not replaced Israel. -Are […]
EP//115: Front Porch Devotions
Is the Bible still relevant for daily living? In today’s episode, we share how God’s word came alive for our family through a recent miracle. In today’s episode: – Cool weather and front porch devotions. – God still heals! – Daily investments of God’s word will begin to pay off. – Vulnerability with our kids. […]
EP//114: How To Change My Spouse
Where do we start when we see our spouse is not living as their best self and affecting our marriage, children, and the people around them? In today’s episode, we discuss the power of prayer to change our spouse’s heart. Discussed in today’s episode: – Things I want to change about my spouse. – Get […]
EP// 113: Free To Be Me
In a healthy relationship, both people are free to fully be themselves and express themselves. In today’s podcast, we discuss how to encourage each other to live in our God-given “voices.” In today’s episode: – Interdependence vs codependency – Gen Z Slang – What makes you uniquely “you” – The 5 Voices Assessment – Guardian, […]
EP//112: It’s Not Fair!
In marriage, it’s common to feel like some things aren’t fair. In today’s episode, we discuss keeping score in marriage and what’s really behind “fair.” In today’s episode: – The kids keep score of chores. – What I am really saying when I say, “It’s not fair!” – Marriage Rescue Intensive – Luke 9:23-27 – […]
EP// 111: Reviving a Dead Marriage
If God can revive a nation that has been scattered and bring them back into their land after almost two thousand years, can He revive your dead marriage? In today’s episode, we parallel God’s faithfulness to keep His promise to a nation and to us. In today’s episode: – Family devotions. – Israel’s rebirth as […]
EP// 110: Internal Vs External Processors
Do you “think to speak” or “speak to think?” On today’s episode, we discuss the difference between the tendency to process internally or externally. In this episode: – The Marriage Adventure Private Retreats – Good communication doesn’t mean no conflict. – Organizing thoughts aloud. – James 1:19, listening before you speak. – Proverbs 18:13 – […]
EP// 109: Rebuilding Trust
Building trust in a relationship takes time, yet it can be lost in a moment. In today’s episode, we discuss the process of rebuilding broken trust. Discussed in today’s episode: – Repairing a broken arm. – Gifting trust vs starting at a deficit. – “Do You Know Your Gen Z Slang?” – Deal thoroughly with […]
EP//108: Know Your Enemy
In marital conflict, many times we allow ourselves to believe that our spouse is the enemy. However, if we dig a little deeper, we’ll see that there’s an enemy that’s way more deceptive and evil. This is why we must know our enemy! In today’s episode: -Bonnie vs the bugs –“I can’t win a war […]
EP//107: The Shame/Blame Game
It’s often difficult to take responsibility when we’re in the middle of marital conflict. In today’s episode, we discuss the tendency to choose shaming ourselves or blaming others. In today’s episode: – What just happened?? –Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build on For Life by David Thomas –Marriage Adventure Weekend at Simple […]
EP//106: Greg & Julie Gormon Interview
Having discovered their own purpose, they now have a passion to teach and inspire other couples to live purpose-focused, rather than problem-focused. In today’s episode, we interview John Maxwell certified Coaches, teachers, and authors, Greg & Julie Gormon. In today’s episode: -A couple on mission. -Lightning Round with Greg & Julie. -Fighting passionately daily. -Change […]
EP//105: How I See Me
The world places an emphasis on self-esteem. In today’s episode, we discuss how having a proper view of ourselves through God’s eyes will affect our marriage relationship. In today’s episode: -What do you see in the mirror? -Stupid Fun Facts -How I view myself affects how I treat others. -Self-esteem vs God’s view. -Improper view […]
EP//104: How I See You
The lens we view our spouse through will affect how we treat them. In today’s episode, we ask, “What if I could see my spouse through God’s eyes?” In this episode: -Scratched glasses. -Rose-colored glasses. –Reset Intensives. -We are “image-bearers.” –Genesis 1:26-27 – How to Worship a King, by Zach Neese – 1 Cor. 6:9-11 -How would […]
EP//103: Avoiding The Drift
When we’re newlyweds, staying connected is easy, but the longer we’re married the more difficult it is to stay connected. In today’s episode, we discuss how to avoid drifting apart as you navigate life. In today’s episode: – Kayaking -Snackelbox – “Do you know your 80s?” – Be intentional to pursue each other – Keep […]
EP//102: Empowered to Love
“Til death do us part” is a long time. In today’s episode we discuss how it’s possible to sustain love over a lifetime. In today’s episode: -The death of a bean bush. -Sustaining love over a lifetime. –Rescue & Reset Intensives. -Connected to the vine. –John 15:5 -Exchanging my life for Christ’s. -Abide with Christ. […]
EP//101: Loving Through Quality Time
Does your spouse need undivided attention to feel like you’re connected? In today’s episode, we wrap up our series on the 5 Love Languages by discussing Quality Time. In today’s episode: -Love Languages by State. -Defining “quality time.” -Understanding “south GA” accents. -Jesus modeled Quality Time. –Luke 5:16 –Mark 1:35 -Establish eye contact. -Be interested […]
EP//100: Episode 100 & A Big Announcement
-It’s our 100th episode! Wow, time flies! On today’s episode, we’ll look back at lessons we’ve learned over the past three years. We also have a HUGE announcement about exciting things happening at THE MARRIAGE ADVENTURE. Discussed in today’s episode: – Things that turn 100 this year. – Lessons God taught us over the past […]
EP// 99: Loving Through Touch
Does your spouse want to hold hands in public, sit close, and cuddle on the couch? Their love language is likely physical touch. In today’s episode, we discuss how to speak love through touch. In today’s episode: – Colby needs a bigger chair. – The Marriage Adventure Challenge – Loving through physical touch. – Jesus […]
EP//98: Loving Through Gifts
Can a thoughtful gift really express love to your spouse? In today’s episode, we discuss practical ways to speak the “love language” of gifts. Discussed in today’s episode: – A stop at Daniel’s parents’ house for Easter. – Bonnie’s hard to buy for. – It’s the thought that counts. – A thoughtful gift shows you […]
EP//97: Loving Through Service
If your spouse feels loved when you vacuum the floors, their love language may be Acts of Service. In today’s episode, we discuss practical ways you show your spouse love as you serve them. In today’s episode: – A garden fence and a windmill. – Acts of service – “Seriously Funny Dad Jokes” – Actions […]
EP//96: Loving Through Words
Words can build up or cut to the quick. In today’s episode, we discuss how to encourage a spouse whose primary love language is words of affirmation. Discussed in today’s episode: – Daniel’s 50th birthday! – The Braves are back. – The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman – Words of affirmation. – Do […]
EP//95: Loving Like Jesus
Jesus went to extremes to make His love known for us. In today’s episode, we discuss what it could look like if we love each other like Jesus loved us. Discussed in today’s episode: – Dogwood trees. – Passion week. – Premarital Workshop April 22, 2023. Register at: http://www.northstarchurch.org/premarital – Jesus went to great lengths […]
EP// 94: The Extra Mile
Doing more than is expected, going above and beyond, seems like an odd concept in today’s world. In this episode, we discuss what it means to go the extra mile in our marriage relationship. Discussed in this episode: – Laying sod with a great attitude. – Doing the bare minimum. -Bonnie breaks the 4th wall!!! […]
EP//93: Mitigating the Mundane
theDiscussed in today’s episode: – Prepping taxes. – Living for the weekend…that’s even more busy. – The Marriage Adventure Challenge – We can’t escape responsibilities but we can mitigate the mundane. – The mundane ceases to be mundane if it has purpose. – Live on mission. – Matthew 28:19-2o – Proverbs 19:21 – Go against […]
EP//92: Pruning
Pruning back plants is a concept that all farmers, gardeners, and vinedressers understand. In this week’s episode, we’ll take this concept and apply it to our marriage relationship. Discussed in today’s episode: –Pruning the trees on the farm. – “Fun Facts” – Why do we prune? –Philippians 3:13-14 – What do you need to clip […]
EP//91: Seasons, Part 2
What happens when you and your spouse are walking through different seasons? In today’s episode, part 2 of 2, we discuss helping our spouse walk through a difficult season. Discussed in today’s episode: – Planting and baseball! – “Do You Know Your 80’s?” – Recognize the season. – Start with empathy. – Stay tethered to […]
EP//90: Seasons, Part 1
The changing of seasons can bring both blessings and challenges. In today’s episode, we discuss what it looks like to recognize and navigate marriage when walking through a new season. Discussed in this episode: – Seasons in Georgia. – Bonnie’s from the South! – “Stupid Fun Facts” – Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 – Common seasons. – Recognizing […]
EP//89: No Record of Wrongs
In marriage, we will inevitably disappoint or wound each other. In today’s episode, we discuss how to handle offenses and move forward in forgiveness. In this episode: – Poor Colby! – “Do You Know Your 80’s?” – The blame game. – Is shame wrong? – The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis – Psalm 51 – […]
EP//88: Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is typically marked by cards, flowers, candy, and date night. In today’s episode, we discuss other ways you and your spouse may prefer to express your love for each other. In today’s episode: -Valentine’s fun facts. -Why Bonnie’s not a fan of Valentine’s Day. -We all show and feel love differently. –The 5 […]
EP//87: Triangles
Why do we get along great until we add one more thing? In today’s episode, we discuss the “goods” and “bads” of emotional triangulation. In Today’s Episode: -Sammy gets jealous. -Do you know your 80’s? -Emotional Triangulation -Shifting focus to another point on the triangle for avoidance. –Ecclesiastes 4:12 -Healthy triangulation with Christ. -Flattening the […]
EP//86: Be the Hunter
What does winning a College Football National Championship have to do with winning in marriage? In today’s episode, we discuss going on the offensive when your marriage is being hunted by a very real enemy. -Winning the Natty -Hope you like sports analogies –The Marriage Adventure: Finding Mission for Your Marriage Couples Guide -Aggression –1 […]
EP//85: A New Adventure
Do you need hope in this new year? Join us in this episode as we share the big God story behind the journey we’ve been on leading us to a new Adventure! – A three-legged stool. – A book, a podcast, and a farm. – Discontent and discouraged. – A free pond? – A friend […]
EP//84: Are You Pleasant?
Have you ever noticed how some people seem naturally easier to get along with than others? In today’s episode, we discuss what a “pleasing” personality can bring to a marriage relationship. – Welcome Stormy to the farm. – Private Marriage Retreats. – How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie – “Catching more […]
EP//83: The Invitation, Interview with Bethann Miller & Amy Velarde
Ever wish you had a clear-cut pathway to address some of the issues that cause you to feel disconnected from your spouse? There’s a book for that! In today’s episode, we interview Bethann Miller & Amy Velarde about their new book The Invitation: Keys to Strengthen your Marriage. Discussed in this episode: – Married to […]
EP//82: Are You Organized?
Are you meticulous while your spouse is a little messy? In today’s episode, we discuss managing personality differences in your relationship when your organizational skills don’t quite match up. Discussed in today’s episode: – Fall football and clothes sorting – Planner/organizer – Two sides to each personality – “Bearing with” one another – Colossians 3:12-13 – […]
EP//81: Are You Social?
One likes to go out, while the other prefers time at home. In today’s episode, we discuss how preferences for social interaction affect relationships. Discussed in this episode: -Bonnie hates people. -Companion planting -Would you rather? -How are you refueled? -Created uniquely –Psalm 139:13-15 -Leaning into our differences -Purchase the book and couple’s guide! The […]
EP//80: Marriage 101- The Meaning of Marriage
Is there a deeper meaning of marriage than you think? In today’s episode, we discuss principles from Ephesians 5 and why they matter in our marriage. -Goodbye Clover –Ephesians 5:21-33 -Mutual submission –Ephesians 2:1-9 -Before and after Christ –Galatians 5:22-23 -Being the hands and feet of Christ -Who benefits? -Purchase the book and couple’s guide! […]
EP//79: Letting Them Launch
We love, protect, provide for, and nurture them for 18-plus years, only to give them away to someone else. In today’s episode, we discuss the call to empower our adult children to leave us to form their new family. Discussed in this episode: -Parenting is stewardship, not ownership. -Seriously Funny Dad Jokes -Setting them up […]
EP//78: Marriage 101, Leave & Cleave
Getting married is exciting, but the process of leaving our family to become one with a stranger is not as easy as it may seem. In today’s episode, we discuss the Biblical concept of “leaving and cleaving.” Discussed in this episode: -Summer weddings. – “Things I Never Said Before Having Kids” – Genesis 2:23-24 – […]
EP//77: The Road to Recovery, Interview with Josh & Kristy Webb
Loving your spouse in health isn’t always easy. But, what if you had to walk with your spouse through a prolonged illness or a devastating trauma? In today’s episode, we talk with Josh and Kristy Webb about their journey together on the road to recovering from a brain tumor. Discussed in today’s episode: – Bonnie’s […]
EP//76: In Sickness and In Health
Marriage vows are a blind covenant two people make to weather the highs and lows of the rest of their lives together. In today’s episode, we discuss caring for each other when sickness or tragedy steals one spouse’s health. Discussed in this episode: – Accident on a Zero Turn mower – Marriage is a blind […]
EP//75: Staying Connected, Part 4: Love
Can I really trust my heart when it comes to love? Today, we wrap up a 4 part series as we talk about the source of genuine connection with our spouse, love. Discussed in today’s episode: – “Love is love.” – The heart is deceitful. – Jeremiah 17:9 – “Seriously Funny Dad Jokes” – 1 […]
EP//74: Staying Connected, Part 3: Physical
A healthy friendship and emotional intimacy create a foundational bond for an even deeper connection in marriage- sex! In today’s episode, part 3 of 4, we discuss physically staying connected to our spouse. Discussed in today’s episode: – Married Sex by Gary Thomas – Real Marriage: The Truth About Sex, Friendship, and Life Together, Mark […]
EP//73: Staying Connected, Part 2: Emotions
Friendship is foundational, but it should lead to a deeper connection between husband and wife. In today’s episode, Part 2 of 4, we discuss the ingredients and barriers to emotional connection in marriage. Discussed in today’s episode: – Len Foote Hike Inn – “Seriously Funny Dad Jokes” – Genesis 2:18a, 24-25 – Prov. 31:10 – […]
EP//72: Staying Connected, Part 1: Friendship
Research has shown that couples who have a great friendship experience a higher percentage overall of marital satisfaction. In today’s episode, Part 1 of 4, we discuss the vital role friendship plays in staying connected to your spouse. Discussed in today’s episode: – “Man’s best friend.” – It is not good that the man should […]
EP//71: What Did You Expect?
Most of us get married with desires for what “happily ever after” will look like. In today’s episode, we discuss what happens when our desires turn into expectations and demands that become a heavy burden on our spouse. Discussed in today’s episode: – Zero Turn mower, raised bed garden, and a birthday getaway. – “Something […]
EP//70: Protecting Your Marriage, Part 2
Good fences are designed to keep predators out and keep the things you love safe. In today’s part 2 of 2 episodes, we discuss things to DO to protect your marriage from a very real enemy. Discussed in today’s episode: – Good fences. – “Seriously Funny Dad Jokes.” – Conflict resolution. – Forgiveness and the […]
EP//69: Protecting Your Marriage, Part 1
Marriage is tough! It may surprise you to know one of the reasons why. In today’s part 1 of 2 episodes, we discuss things NOT to do to help protect your marriage. Discussed in today’s episode: – A roaring lion. – 1 Peter 5:8-9 – Catch the Little Foxes- Song of Songs 2:15 – Pursuing […]
EP//68: Good vs Great
The new year is a great time to evaluate our personal financial, fitness, work, spiritual, and recreational goals. But do we take the time to take inventory of the relationships in our lives? In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of investing in our marriage and family in 2022. Discussed in today’s episode: -New Year, […]
EP//67: Famous Last Words
If the last words you spoke to your spouse, children, or someone else in your life today were the last they ever heard from you, what would they remember? In today’s episode, we discuss the power of words and how we can use them wisely. Discussed in today’s episode: – Car line last words. – […]
EP//66: Two Are Better Than One
There will inevitably be seasons of marriage that one spouse will need to lean on the other more than usual. In today’s episode, we talk about 7 times your spouse will most need your support. Discussed in today’s episode: –Prepare/Enrich- Couple Checkup -Eccl. 4:9-12 –The Marriage Adventure: Discovering Mission for Your Marriage -Grief -Overwhelmed -“How […]
EP//65: COVID, Kidney Stones, Concussions, and the Keys
Covid, Kidney Stone, Concussions, the Keys. Welcome to our last two months! When life presses in, and you need to get away to reconnect with your spouse, what does that time look like? In today’s episode, we discuss how to leave your getaway refocused and rejuvenated. Discussed in today’s episode: – Covid, Kidney Stone, Concussions, […]
EP//64: Marital Rat Poison
College football legend, Coach Nick Saban, has said that for players to believe all the good things the press writes about them is like taking rat poison. In today’s episode, we discuss some seemingly good things in our marriage that can become like poison for our relationship. Discussed in today’s episode: – Fall football! – […]
EP//63: Navigating Change
Change is HARD…for some people, for other people, they embrace it! What happens when one spouse loves change, and the other spouse hates change? In today’s episode, we’ll let you in on a little “real life” issue we faced recently when it came to change. We also talk about the lessons we learned. Discussed in […]
EP//62: The Ideal Team Player, Part 2
How can being “Humble, Hungry, and Smart” lead to a better relationship? In part two of two episodes, we discuss how having a hunger to invest in your marriage and being smart in how you relate to your spouse can strengthen your relationship. Discussed in today’s episode: -Hungry all the time. -Seriously Funny Dad Jokes […]
EP//61: The Ideal Team Player, Part 1
To be an ideal team player that an organization will value, Patrick Lencioni says you need to possess three virtues outlined in his book, Ideal Team Player. Can these help you work better with your spouse if you have them? In part one of two episodes, we dig into the first virtue and how it […]
EP//60: Interview with Kevin & Marcia Myers: The Second Happy
Can an unhappy marriage really get back to being happy? Can it be truly and authentically happy–even better than it was at first? In today’s episode, we interview Kevin & Marcia Meyers about their new book, The Second Happy: Seven Practice to Make Your Marriage Better Than Your Honeymoon. Kevin is the Pastor of 12Stone […]
EP//59: Before You Split, Interview with Toni Nieuwhof
What would it take to leave your unhappiness behind instead of your spouse? In today’s episode, author, speaker, and podcast co-host, Toni Nieuwhof shares insights from her new book, Before You Split: Find What You Really Want for the Future of Your Marriage. Discussed in today’s Episode: “Lightning Round” with Toni Mud stories Split, survive, […]
EP//58: Kids Come 2nd
Children are a blessing from the Lord and should undoubtedly be a priority. But should we put them above our spouse? In today’s episode, we discuss God’s order for the parent/child relationship. Discussed in today’s episode: – Planning a 25th-anniversary getaway – “Seriously Funny Dad Jokes” – Why it’s easier to put kids first – […]
EP// 57: 20/20 Money, Interview with Joseph Sangl
One of the most contentious topics of marital conflict is in the area of money management. In today’s episode, we invite you to join us for a conversation with the founder of I Was Broke. Now I’m Not and the president and CEO of INJOY Stewardship Solutions, Joseph Sangl, as we discuss his new book […]
EP// 56: Relationship Romance
Roses and chocolates, moonlit strolls on the beach, slow dancing, and long kisses goodnight. All of these phrases scream “romance!” But we all know it doesn’t last forever in marriage. In today’s episode, we talk about how to rekindle the fire when the romance fades. Discussed in today’s episode: – What Bonnie REALLY thinks about […]
EP// 55: Wind Beneath My Wings, Interview with Ira & Kim Blumenthal
As a brand consultant and leadership guru, Ira Blumenthal has published over 200 magazine articles, authored 3 books, and hosted a radio show. The list of Ira’s achievements is incredibly long and his influence is far-reaching. But with all of Ira’s success, what most draws us to Ira is his love for his wife and […]
EP// 54: Amazing Grace, Part 2
God desires for our marriage to be a safe place to grow, learn, and to be more like Him. In today’s episode, we discuss the freedom found in a grace-filled marriage. Discussed in this episode: – 2021’s Cancel culture. – Walking on eggshells. – The freedom to be different. – The freedom to be vulnerable. […]
EP// 53: Amazing Grace, Part 1
Love gets us married, but may not be enough to keep us married. In today’s episode, we talk about the importance of grace and how it sustains the marriage relationship over the long haul. Discussed in this episode: – Matthew 5:44-45 – The definitions of love and grace. – Grace Filled Marriage: The Missing Piece. […]
EP// 52: When to Walk Away, Interview with Gary Thomas
Toxic relationships drain the life out of us. Wondering how to handle these people? In today’s episode, best-selling author, Gary Thomas, offers insight from his latest book, When to Walk Away, Finding Freedom From Toxic People. Discussed in today’s episode: – We love a good “how you met” story! – “Lightning Round” – Is it […]
EP// 51: Sixty Years and Counting
What does it take to make a marriage last 60 years? In today’s episode, we’ll talk with Daniel’s parents and celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary. We’ll ask them how a relationship can weather storms and make it last. In Today’s Episode: – Tell us how you met. – A little bit of their story. – […]
EP//50: New Year’s Baby Steps
Welcome to 2021! With a fresh page turning over on the calendar, many of us are already working on our resolutions. In this week’s episode, we discuss the importance of taking intentional baby steps toward strengthening your marriage for whatever this new year brings. Discussed in this episode: – Happy New Year?? – Our Christmas […]
EP//49: Christmas Traditions
December is a time for Christmas cookies, Hallmark movies, candlelight worship services, and enjoying family traditions. In this last episode of the year, we discuss how traditions tie us to our past and give us something to look forward to in the future. Discussed in this episode: – December traditions. – A 12 foot tall […]
EP//48: Interview with Brian & Connie Doyle
After helping the New York Yankees win the 1978 World Series, Brian Doyle went on to help establish one of the nation’s premier baseball schools, overcome cancer, and travel the world as a missionary teaching baseball and sharing the gospel. However, his greatest joy has come through being the husband to his wife Connie. In […]
EP//47: Giving Thanks in 2020
With so much loss and so many unmet expectations in this crazy year, how do we give thanks in 2020? In today’s episode, a very special 11 and 9 old join us to talk about it. Discussed in today’s episode: – The first Thanksgiving. – Why we should still be thankful. – Our Thankful Tree. […]
EP//46: Too Much Life
Marriage, family, friends, job, career, church, hobbies, school, extracurricular activities… don’t all of these things equal “the American dream?” Some of us are trying to fit 4 pounds of life in a 2-pound bag and it’s killing our marriage and family. In today’s episode, we discuss the pitfalls and remedies for “too much life.” Discussed […]
EP//45: Lucas & Maggie Black
You may recognize Lucas Black from his roles in NCIS: New Orleans, The Fast and the Furious: Tokyo Drift, Sling Blade, and 42. But you may not know that more than an actor, he’s a family man who is very outspoken about his relationship with Christ. In today’s episode, we talk with Lucas and his […]
EP//44: Marriage Myth #3: Marriage Should Be Easy
If we are married to the right person, won’t life just fall into place? If we believe this marriage myth we will want to bail out when problems arise and storms hit. In today’s episode, we debunk the marriage myth that “marriage should just be easy.” Discussed in today’s episode: – Hallmark movies and the […]
EP43//: Marriage Myth #2: Happily Ever After
With so many myths floating around about marriage, how do we know what’s true? Today, we’ll tackle one of the most common myths that many marriages fall prey to. Discussed in today’s episode: – The #1 expectation people have going into marriage. – “Call a Kid with Madeleine” – We are self-centered and think we […]
EP42//: Marriage Myth #1: You Complete Me
There are so many myths floating around our society concerning marriage and what makes a relationship work. Today we’ll uncover and expose the myth made popular by the 1996 movie Jerry Maguire. Discussed in today’s episode: – Jerry McGuire, “You complete me.” – “Things I Never Said Before Having Kids” – The single dilemma. – […]
EP41//: Negativity
With access to so much external noise, we can become inundated with negative influences that shape our view of our world, ourselves, and our spouse. In today’s episode, we discuss what happens when our interactions with each other tip from positive to negative. Discussed in today’s episode: – John Gottman study. -Positive vs negative interactions. […]
EP40//: Situational Awareness
In today’s crazy world, it’s wise to pay attention to our surroundings and make adjustments for our own safety. In today’s episode, we discuss the benefits of situational awareness in our marriage relationship. Discussed in today’s episode: – Outlet Mall and pepper spray. – Lightning Round with Colby. – Situational awareness. – Reading verbal and […]
EP//39: Unselfish Sex (Part 3/3)
As we’ve seen in previous episodes, the devil’s goal is to take the gift of sex that God created to be a blessing to the married couple, and twist it until it’s perverted and self-serving. In today’s episode, we’ll talk about specific instructions God gave about sex and ways we are selfish lovers. Discussed in […]
EP//38: Safeguarding Sex (Part 2/3)
Do you put locks on the doors of your home? Do you lock your car? Why then are we so casual in protecting our sexual relationship with our spouse? In today’s episode, we’ll discuss ways you can safeguard your sexual relationship with each other and protect the precious gift God gave you. Discussed in today’s […]
EP//37: Sex by Design (Part 1/3)
Whatever God creates for good, the enemy takes it and twists it, making it selfish and perverted. This is a great picture of what he’s done to sex. God created an amazing way for husbands and wives to connect and share themselves. In today’s episode, we journey back to the Garden of Eden to take […]
EP//36: Opposite-Sex Friendships
Jobs and hobbies often force us to spend time with people of the opposite sex. In today’s episode, we discuss whether or not friendships with the opposite sex are healthy for our marriage. Discussed in today’s episode: – The Billy Graham Rule. – “Lightning Round” with Daniel. – The “slow fade.” – “Don’t you trust […]
EP//35: Lessons from Newlyweds
Like most couples, after a while, we tend to fall into the trap of juggling life and managing chaos. Too often, this leads to a relationship that is a shell of what it once was. What if we could go back and learn from our younger, newlywed selves? What are some lessons we could learn […]
EP//34: Emotions are Liars, Part 2
Why do we keep arguing about the same things over and over? In this second part of a two-part conversation, we discuss how each couple has different hot buttons that draw them into conflict and how to stop the tango. Discussed in today’s episode: – Flat-brained tango recapped. – “Things I Never Said Before Having […]
EP//33: Emotions are Liars, Part 1
Have you ever noticed that a normal conversation can escalate from 0-10 in about five seconds? We’re all wired for “fight or flight” to be able to protect ourselves from perceived danger. In part 1 of 2 episodes, today we talk about how our emotions can take over making relational conflict more difficult than it […]
EP// 32: The Other Side of Me
If you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were married to “you” would you be happy or devastated? In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of asking our spouse the question, “what’s it like to be on the other side of me?” Discussed in today’s podcast: – Colby’s baseball tryouts. – The climate that surrounds […]
EP// 31- Am I Driven or Selfish?
There is typically a goal setter in every marriage relationship. This can be healthy, or it can create conflict. In today’s episode, we discuss whether constant drive toward goals is healthy or harmful to a marriage relationship. Discussed in today’s episode: – Daniel’s new goal. – Seriously Funny Dad Jokes – Type A personalities – […]
EP//BONUS: The End of the World as We Know It
We know today’s current events greatly impact our families, possibly our marriages. But,do they have anything to do with the end of the world? If so, how should we respond to it? Discussed in today’s podcast: -Why it’s taboo to talk about the end of the age. -We’re not making predictions. (Matt. 24:36) – End […]
EP//30: 5 Healthy Coping Skills for Facing the New Normal
We are five months into the 2020 “COVID-crisis” and starting to realize life may not go back to normal. Today we draw wisdom from the imprisoned apostle Paul to uncover 5 healthy coping skills for facing our new normal. Discussed in today’s episode: -Face masks, homeschooling, and a cashless society. -Our recent meltdown. -“Call a […]
EP//29: Patience
If you’re like us, patience is something you need daily. Much like oil in the engine of a car, patience helps family relationships run more smoothly. In today’s episode, we’ll answer the question: “Why do we need patience in relationships?” Discussed in today’s podcast: – Water skiing adventure. – “Things I Never Said Before I […]
EP//28: Our Struggle with Infertility
After eight into marriage, we finally decided to have kids. However, God was not on board with our plan. The world was not ready for our children, and there was still so much more the Lord wanted to teach us. In today’s episode, we’ll tell the story of our 5-year infertility journey and discuss the […]
EP// 27: Household Chores
She likes yard work and he likes to cook. Is that allowable? In today’s episode, we talk about how to divide up household chores and responsibilities. Discussed in today’s podcast: – Who thinks working outside is relaxing? – “Call a Kid” with Harlow. – Traditional vs equalitarian roles. – Dividing up the load. – Galatians […]
EP// 26: 12 Things Happy Couples Do- Part 2
Is “happily ever after” possible, or just a fairy tale? Today, in this second part of two episodes, we discuss the next six out of twelve things happy couples do on a regular basis. Discussed in today’s episode: – Happy 24th Anniversary to us! – “Things I Never Said Before I Had Kids” – Talking […]
EP// 25: 12 Things Happy Couples Do- Part 1
When most people get married they are certain their happiest days are ahead. This may or may not be the case in marriage. Today, in this part one of two episodes, we discuss the first six out of twelve things happy couples do on a regular basis. Discussed in today’s episode: -Little things that make […]
EP// 24: From the Heart of an Interracial Couple: Interview with Sterling and Myssi Brown
Sterling and Myssi Brown have seen tremendous success and influence in the world of sports and character development with athletes, but there’s a topic that is even more personal to them than sports. In this episode, we sit down over coffee in our living room and discuss the blessings, struggles, and very real issues of […]
